Hey anon, sorry to hear you’re dealing with this with your partner. Honestly ya gotta talk to them about it. You might not get the answers you necessarily want to hear but communicate with them. Talk to them about what’s going on and tell them that you’re feeling abandoned. They can’t correct their behavior if they don’t know what you’re going through and if they can’t meet your needs then thank u, next find someone/some people that will make you feel like you’re the tits